come to terms with
逐渐接受并调整对某事的态度或情感，与某事和解
口语·书面语·表示接受并适应困难
英文释义
to accept or reconcile with a difficult or challenging situation; to find a way to cope or make peace with something
例句
He struggled to come to terms with the fact that his childhood home was being demolished.
典故来源
源自谈判或和解中“达成协议”的概念，比喻内心接受并适应困难现实，强调情感上的妥协。